• Nov 21, 2025

Fundable Founders Don’t Take Feedback Personally - They Take It Seriously

  • Simone Spence

There’s a myth that fundraising is about having the perfect pitch deck, the perfect market, or the perfect timing.
But founders who’ve actually raised know the real truth:

Investors don’t fund slides. They fund signals.

And one of the strongest signals a founder can send is this:
I can take feedback without taking it personally.

Feedback Is Data, Not a Judgment

Unfundable founders hear feedback and immediately go into defense mode:

  • “They don’t get it.”

  • “This investor isn’t my audience.”

  • “They’re wrong.”

Fundable founders hear the exact same feedback and think:

  • “Is there something here I’m missing?”

  • “What pattern does this fit into?”

  • “How can I use this to sharpen the business?”

The difference isn’t ego.
The difference is orientation.

One person is trying to protect their idea.
The other is trying to grow a company.

Not All Feedback Is Created Equal

Fundable founders don’t blindly accept every investor comment.
They filter it- intelligently.

They understand that:

  • Some feedback is gold.

  • Some is irrelevant.

  • Some reflects an investor’s thesis, not the startup’s quality.

  • And some is pure noise from someone who didn’t understand the problem, the customer, or the space.

Here’s the skill:
They can parse signal from noise without getting defensive.

A fundable founder can disagree with an investor and walk away earning their respect.

Why This Matters More Than You Think

Investors aren’t testing your deck- they’re testing you.
Your thinking.
Your emotional intelligence.
Your ability to stay steady under pressure.
Your ability to learn, adjust, and iterate.

Every interaction is a data point.
Every response is a signal.

If you’re reactive, defensive, or easily rattled, it signals fragility.
If you’re open, curious, and grounded, it signals leadership.

Guess which one gets funded?

Investors Fund Founders Who Can Evolve

A founder who listens, synthesizes, and adapts is a founder who can:

  • Navigate shifting markets

  • Iterate product faster

  • Lead teams effectively

  • Make decisions with clarity

  • Build trust with partners, customers, and capital

These are the traits of someone who can turn capital into growth- not chaos.

Feedback Is a Mirror

You don’t have to agree with it.
You don’t have to apply all of it.
But the way you process feedback says more about your fundability than any KPI in your deck.

The Takeaway

Investors aren’t evaluating your slides.
They’re evaluating signals -
Signals about judgment, maturity, resilience, and coachability.

And the founders who raise aren’t the ones who treat feedback as an insult.
They’re the ones who treat it as information.

Fundable founders don’t take feedback personally.
They take the company personally.
And that’s what gets them funded.

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